Author: coffeeaddict

  • Anxiety in School: How to help your child cope

    Anxiety in School: How to help your child cope

    As the dust settled from the COVID-19 Global Pandemic, we quickly saw a spike in anxiety and depression among the world’s youth. The Center for Disease Control surveyed over 200,000 students from 20 states in the 2021 Adolescent Behaviors and Experiences Survey (ABES). The participants revealed that anxiety in school and depression are the most… Read more

  • How to Get Your Kids to Help Out More at Home

    How to Get Your Kids to Help Out More at Home

    I have three kids. Each has their own personality and way of pitching around the house.  I have learned to be creative and flexible to get my kids to help out more at home. In the past, I was expected to do all the cleaning and cooking, even though I had a full-time job and… Read more

  • Middle School: Important Info Every Parent Needs To Know

    Middle School: Important Info Every Parent Needs To Know
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    The American Middle School is a unique cultural experience for adolescents. If your child’s school district is structured so that they will attend a Middle School (typically a building housing 6th, 7th, and 8th-grade students), there are some things you should know. I was a middle school counselor for eight years and am currently the… Read more

  • How to Overcome a Personal Crisis

    How to Overcome a Personal Crisis

    I’m not trying to be click-baiting or fear-mongering, but inevitably, in life, you will face a personal crisis or two. The crisis may pop up not due to any fault of your own. Nevertheless, it is your steaming pile of crap to deal with. At times like these, knowing who to turn to or where… Read more

  • Is TikTok Safe For Your Kids? Advice from a counselor

    Is TikTok Safe For Your Kids? Advice from a counselor

    If you are a parent, the day will come when your child will start asking for a phone, tablet, and the inevitable Social Media account. Like it or not, what was once just fun posting pictures on your Facebook or MySpace is now a significant part of teen culture. But how do those of us… Read more

  • How To Support Your Kids In Five Simple Sentences

    How To Support Your Kids In Five Simple Sentences

    I take no job or role in my life more seriously than being a mom. Moms everywhere want to give their children the knowledge and understanding they need to succeed. While no secret formula will work for every child, I have found five statements I make to my children regularly that reinforce everything I want… Read more

  • How to achieve your dreams: It Isn’t About Motivation

    How to achieve your dreams: It Isn’t About Motivation

    Human beings are wired to move forward instead of remaining static. Change is a constant in life, and that change can be something you work toward or is forced upon you. Whether you have obstacles to overcome or are unsure how to achieve your dreams, getting to that next level or accomplishment takes much more… Read more

  • From Supermom to Super Calm: How to defeat Parental Burnout

    From Supermom to Super Calm: How to defeat Parental Burnout

    If you’ve ever felt overstressed and overwhelmed by trying to keep up with your kids’ schedules, you may be experiencing parental burnout. As a single mom of three active kids, I sometimes feel like being a stressed mom is just a way of life. You are not alone. The bad news is that many stressed… Read more

  • How to Talk to Your Kids About Losing in Sports

    How to Talk to Your Kids About Losing in Sports

    As parents, we want what is best for our children. Many parents enroll their children in sports hoping it will add to their child’s happiness. Playing organized sports teaches them valuable lessons. One main lesson from playing competitive sports is how to cope with losing. Even if you were once a young athlete, you might… Read more

  • 10 Life Lessons I Learned from the Divorce Process

    10 Life Lessons I Learned from the Divorce Process

    If you are considering separation or just beginning the divorce process, you may have a lot of stress and worry about the future. As someone just coming through that profoundly challenging life change, I feel compelled to share my lessons. The divorce process is unique for everyone, and the stages of divorce can vary greatly… Read more